It just keeps…… getting. …. better
little things that help ease symptoms of depression:
- turn the lights on and open a window
- eat something healthy and drink ice cold water
- find a comforting album to listen to whenever things get bad
- take a long, relaxing bath
- do yourself up in full make up and hair
- be around people, even if you don’t think it will help
- watch something funny on netflix
- wear your favorite/most comfortable outfit
- immerse yourself in a hobby like drawing
- lose yourself in a really good book or movie
does anyone else feel kinda chubby sometimes when ur on the computer
so u just take ur shirt and
DID YOU GUYS HEAR THAT BASICALLY THE HIGH-UP DUDES IN JSA (JUNIOR STATE OF AMERICA, A NATIONAL ORGANIZATION FOR HIGHSCHOOL STUDENTS WHO WANT TO GET INVOLVED IN OUR GOVERNMENT; WE HAVE DEBATES AND CONVENTIONS AND STUFF IT’S CHILL AND ALSO HIGH UP PEOPLE IN JSA USUALLY GET INTO IVY LEAGUE COLLEGES AND END UP EITHER HIGHLY SUCCESSFUL OR IN OUR GOVERNMENT) STARTED A SECRET FACEBOOK GROUP CALLED ‘GUARDIANS OF DEMOCRACY’ IN WHICH THEY DISCUSSED THE SEXUAL HISTORIES OF GIRLS IN JSA, AND THE CURRENT JSA PRESIDENT OF MY REGION CALLED EXTREMELY STRONG, WELL-SPOKEN WOMEN SLUTS, AND THEY’VE BEEN RIGGING ELECTIONS SO GIRLS CAN’T WIN
A SUPER BRAVE AND AMAZING AND EDUCATED GIRL IN JSA FOUND OUT ABOUT IT AND GOT SCREENSHOTS OF THE FACEBOOK GROUP AND MADE A POST ON FACEBOOK TELLING EVERYONE ABOUT IT BECAUSE THE POST ABOUT IT SHE MADE ON THE JSA FACEBOOK GROUP GOT DELETED
MY ENTIRE JSA CHAPTER IS LIVID
I HAVE NEVER SEEN OUR CLUB LEADER SO PISSED OFF
I AM VERY VERY PISSED OFF
IF THIS GOVERNMENT SANCTIONED NATIONAL PROGRAM FOR OUR NATION’S FUTURE LEADERS IS FULL OF BOY-MEN WHO SEEM TO THINK THAT IT’S ACCEPTABLE TO RIG ELECTIONS IN THEIR FAVOR, WHAT DOES IT SAY ABOUT OUR GOVERNMENT? WHAT DOES IT SAY ABOUT THE ORGANIZATION ITSELF THAT THEY WERE ABLE TO FLOURISH AND SUCCEED AND ATTAIN SUCH HIGH LEVELS IN THE ORGANIZATION?
Also if they aren’t punished VERY SEVERELY and possibly have their college acceptances RESCINDED so that they NEVER EVER CAN BE IN A POSITION OF POWER then I AM MOVING TO SWEDEN BECAUSE THEY ARE GOOD AT EUROVISION AND I LIKE THEIR GOVERNMENT AND I SPEAK FRENCH WELL AND IT SOUNDS LIKE A GOOD IDEA.
- Strawberry - I’m in love with you.
- Cherry - I love you.
- Watermelon - I think you’re cute.
- Blueberry - You’re amazing.
- Kiwi - You’re pretty
- Rasberry - You’re hot.
- Plum - I would fuck you.
- Paopu Fruit - I would date you.
- Grapes - I could stay on your blog for hours.
- Lemon - You are my tumblr crush.
- Orange - I want to get to know you.
- Tangerine - We have a lot in common.
- Lemon - I wish you would notice me.
- Lime - I don’t talk to you but I really love your blog.
It really annoys me when prolifers say that a pregnant person shouldn’t get an abortion to free themselves entirely from an abusive situation since an abusive relationship is better than “killing the child.”
I decided to poke around on statistics and I found the following.
"Pregnant and recently pregnant women are more likely to be victims of homicide than to die of any other cause , and evidence exists that a significant proportion of all female homicide victims are killed by their intimate partners." [X]
Around 324,000 women experience partner abuse during their pregnancy.
26% of pregnant teens report their boyfriends abuse them and that it started or intensified when he was made aware of the pregnancy. [X]
"Pregnancy can be an especially dangerous time for women in abusive relationships, and abuse can often begin or escalate during the pregnancy." [X]
"Pregnant and recently pregnant women are more likely to be victims of homicide than to die of any other cause." [X]
Then I poked around on statistics about abusers reforming. It was dismal. Most of what I found mentioned the only way an abuser can change is if they WANT to change. The problem with abusers is that they don’t think there’s anything wrong with them. They think they are not only justified in their behavior but ALLOWED to since it’s their right. Then I poked around at custody laws with even abusive parents and that was even more grim.
It’s hard to leave abusive relationships especially in the cases of the finances being controlled by the abusive partner, and the probability that everyone outside of that home thinks the abuser is a fantastic person and couldn’t ever possibly be abusive. So when a person is in abusive relationship and is pregnant, to leave, sometimes they have to cut the ties in any way possible. A judge is less likely to grand a restraining order for them if a kid’s involved unless there’s verified, repeated evidence. And a lot of abusers go to court, and never see jail time. Which just leaves that person in the world to be even more abusive because their character comes into question.
So, put together the fact the law is hardly on the side of the victims, the custody laws, and the statistics with abusers severely abusing/killing their victims and you have a recipe for a necessity to get out at any cost.
The whole system needs revamping there. But in the meantime, it is still going to be a necessary thing. To say otherwise is to say “I don’t care if you end up dead to your abuser. You’re staying pregnant.”
I’ll just go ahead and add that my mother was primed to leave my father when he sabotaged her birth control and got her pregnant with me. Reproductive abuse is a common tactic of abusers, it’s most often used to force women to stay when they’re trying to get out. He did it to her two more times after that, each time she was going to leave, was ready t leave, had the money and resources necessary to leave, was going to take us with her and each time he impregnated her against her will. This is a form of rape and it’s the kind of thing that happens way more often than most of people realize.
Now, as the kid in that situation, I can absolutely say without a shadow of a doubt that never existing at all would have been a million times better than spending 18 years of my life controlled and abused by a sadistic rapist and the same goes for my brother (the third pregnancy was a stillbirth). I like my life now (that I’m almost thirty and have spent untold dollars and hours on intense therapy dealing with the issues that arose from the abuse) and I’m not saying I wish I was dead or anything like that but if I’d never existed in the first place I never would have had to suffer and not suffering is absolutely what’s best for the child in any such situation. As someone who’s been there not existing and not being abused is always better than being abused. Always.
NEVER trust an adult who won’t apologize to a child
Wow. I’d never seen it put that way, but. Wow. That is a really good piece of advice.
i couldnt scroll past this i had to reblog
I really tried to scroll past it
people saying negative things about a character you love that aren’t even constructive criticisms of their character or valid points and are just pointlessly and immaturely rude
I was at the mall today and overheard this dude talking to two lesbian chicks. I hear him ask, “So which one of you is the guy in your relationship?” And the one girl looks into her pants and says, “It’s not me. How bout you? Are you hiding a dick in there?” Then her girlfriend looks in her pants and says, “Nope, I’m not.” Then the first chick looks at the dude and says, “Hmmm, guess that’s why we are lesbians.” And then I lost my shit.
DRAGONS: a compilation
I NEED THOSE GLOVES
Jade! She’s my favorite kid :3
seriously. fuck this “women are crazy” BS. MEN are fucking psychopaths.
Hilda is such a beautiful pin-up girl <3
Daww, she’s adorable!!
I love these pin ups
She’s such a cutie!!
NO U DO NOT DO THIS U DO NOT SCRATCH THE SHEILD U DO NOT MESS WITH THE SHEILD THIS IS UNACCEPTABLE CAN U NOT